Gift-giving: Your Expertise And Wisdom
As a child I was taught the age-old wisdom, If you can t say something nice, don t say anything at all. Once I entered public schools, being the overly-sensitive child which I was, I had to quickly learn the defensive protection of Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. Truth be told, however, many of my less-sensitive schoolmates words did hurt--I just learned to act as if they didn t. Thus, I began to wear a mask and keep my feelings inside, except of course when they seeped through the corners of my eyes. Of course, there were times when I allowed my feelings on the outside in the comfort zone of friends or family. As an adolescent I began the marvelous process of thinking for myself--trying to make sense of the world in which I was living, idealizing and philosophizing--thinking I knew it all, wondering why there were so many problems in the world which had seemingly simple solutions!. And I, like many teens...